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Hustle is a euphemism for manipulation

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1. You want me to look beautiful, don’t you?
(Translation: Buy me that outfit/hair/nails/lingerie)

2. You said you want the best for me.
(Translation: Give me the extra money)

3. I just want to feel safe and secure.
(Translation: Get me my own hotel suite)

4. You’ve inspired me to be better
(Translation: pay for this elite yoga retreat)

5. I feel like you don’t trust me and I’m giving you my body.
(Translation: Give me the money first)

6. Take me to XYZ and I’ll look so beautiful you’ll make all the men in the room jealous
(Translation: Take me to this broadway play)

7. I bought a new bikini for you! When are you gonna let me show it off for you (Translation: take me to Hawaii)

8. That man is making me uncomfortable *hold his hand while someone else is checking you out*
(Translation: other people think I’m hot and check me out all the time. Know that.)

sugarbythespoonful

Anonymous asked:

I'll be a college student this fall. My parents aren't paying for anything college related. They aren't paying for tuition, housing, textbooks, computer. Absolutely nothing. I've been considering becoming a sugar baby, but I don't know how I would even find a sugar daddy. My college is in a small town but there's a big city about an hour away, is it common to find sugar daddy's in larger cities?

sugarbythespoonful answered:

Congrats on college! i was in a similar situation–my parents never spent a single dime on my college education. I go to school in NYC where daddies are plentiful, but I did spend a semester interning in a small town upstate. I used Tinder, and was pleasantly surprised! I’m sure you won’t have trouble finding a POT who will be more than willing to get you a cab to meet him in the big city. :)

sugarbythespoonful

sugar-sugar-carpe-diem-blog asked:

I'm going into university for medicine in September. My parents aren't paying for anything (tuition, books, housing, etc.). I'm currently working two jobs to save up as my as I can. As I've been considered joining the sugar bowl for two years, moving to the big city will be my opportunity! I find myself asking two questions. One, what is an inappropriate amount of money to start out asking for. Two, what are the best sites or apps for sugar babies? Also: I understand SA and AM, but how would

sugarbythespoonful answered:

1. I never ask for money. I manipulate it so that giving me money is entirely HIS* choice. Run a quick analysis on his finances and compare it to his approximate cost of living. How much do men in his field get paid? Does he have a family? Are you his only SB or are there others? These are all important questions to consider when thinking about the allowance you can expect from him. (*Of course, it isn’t. But he doesn’t know that.)

2. SA is the easiest way, as men are literally signing up to be a SD. Tinder requires more digging, but there seems to be a lot of older men who state in their profile that they’d like to spoil a younger woman. Set your preferences to 50+ and take a close look at their photos. Nice, well tailored suit? Sipping champagne on a yacht? Expensive, high end watch on his wrist? Swipe right.